Saturday, May 11, 2024

Self Reminder: The Born Day


Today is my born day, I think I never post on my born day, but this year I want to write few words.
Since I was young, in my family, not really celebrate the birthday, usually my parent and sister only give me the birthday wish, and my mother cook good food for us. So, in my mind birthday not really a big deal, and am just happy when my family remember it, thats it

I dont really wish or want people notice by birthday, I even closed my birthday from my sosmed account, coz I dont expect friends to notice it.
As the time pass and I am getting older, actually every year when the number of my age is scale up 😊, I realize spiritually its like a year lessen to live in this beautiful world

How do you feel in this year? in your 44th yo?
Well this twin number of my age that move me to write this post actually, because the twin number will be happen in another 11 years, and who knows? am I still alive? well I hope so...amin

How I feel? In general, first of all, I pray al-fatihah for my self, I thank you to Allah SWT for always bless me, my parent are healthy, I have job, I can do charity, I have good friends even not many, I can buy things that I want, I have debt but not much, I have small saving, am healthy (well in my pov tho), I can treat my fam with good food. I am happy

But then...I am happy and also sad. I sad because there are still many poor people out there and working hard to live, Palestine still suffer, many babies abandon by their parents, many orphans, I still see arrogant rich person, I face or see unfair things happen, poor children couldnt continue their school, and then how to answer, why am I not marry yet?

The last question is that mostly kind of standard question in my society, in my age and still single is like weird
They forget that every person has her own path and journey, I cannot choose my destiny, I was dreamed to get marry at 26th and having children, I made this target when I was in high school, but who can predict that am still single now. This is the path that Allah SWT assign to me, and what will be happen ahead is in His hand, in simple understanding, do you know when you will die? no one knows the answer, anybody maybe?

Therefor Rina, I talk to my self, lets enjoy this "you only live once" in this beautiful world, que sera sera, whatever will be, will be. Lets continue this life bravely and it doesnt matter if I will walk or run, I can choose the speed
Everyone that celebrates birthday in May 11th, I wish you a happy born day, and all the best for you, because your best is yours!


Bali, May 11 2024. Thank you Rina for being strong and dont forget to loving yourself!
Around 11.45PM - 15 minutes before the day will change!


Sunday, March 17, 2024

Woman, Worth, Wonder

The recent news about korean k-pop and k-drama that revealed having relationship which might be called "transit love" made me feel sorry for the ex (woman)
Transit love is kind of situation where couple still in relation but a party is also build feeling with other (cmiiw) in Indonesia called selingkuh (kind of it)

I just want to describe my feeling, I dont really care which version is the truth
I want to say to you H*eri, you are worth woman, and I know you're a wonder woman
I believe you will face this shit situation bravely
I dont know you, I dont even your fans, you broke up with him, simple just because he is not worth for you
You will find yours
If not, then God knows and having better plan for you

To all the broken heart:
I am not saying that broke up is an easy thing, go cry, go alone, go find the space, go to heal the soul
But then...
Wipe the tears, wake up, stand up, walk firmly and open the window and the door
There are rainbow and sun after the rain
There is future that waiting 
You only live once....enjoy it to the fullest

Taylor Swift said:
------And you wanna scream
Don't call me "kid"
Don't call me "baby"
Look at this godforsaken mess that you made me
You showed me colors
You know I can't see with anyone else
Don't call me "kid"
Don't call me "baby"
Look at this idiotic fool that you made me
You taught me a secret language
I can't speak with anyone else
And you know damn well
For you, I would ruin myself
A million little times--------

Thursday, February 08, 2024

Coldplay Concert : Singapore National Stadium

Singapore, January 24, 2024
Coldplay Concert: Music of The Spheres

Alhamdulillah, Thank you Allah SWT for making the dream happen and for the blessed that never ending You have pour in my life!

It begin with just a wishing that if I can go to abroad again, I only want go to; 1st Coldplay concert, and 2nd I want to go for Umroh, and well after the covid period passed and global access was opened, Coldplay starting their worldwide tour concert. Hoping that they will go to Asia, and yes its answered. Indonesia is in their list, preparing with friends for the war ticket, and yet failed, as sooo many people joined the war and well it just not my luck. Disappointed? ofcourse! but I accept it, maybe in another time...am trying for Malaysia, but yet its the same, failed!
Then, there is announcement for Singapore for 4 days (+2) concert! in January 2024, and again helped by my friend Lisa and Etta, we're in better prep for the tix war, as Ticketmaster.sg is like more strict and the D day was in June 19, 2023 (Presale) with big hope that this time I will get the ticket!
OMG when 3 of us enter the war, we were all in like no 600k queuing! however, a least the timeline is running eventough slowly, and finally after 3 hours waiting, I get the access to execute the tix, and yas!! succeeded bought 2 tixs.
My friend Lisa and Etta were only helped for the tix war but they dont want to go to the concert, so I share the tix with my other friend; Ulfa!

Since then, starting the prep to attending the concert in Singapore; renewing my passport, hunting hotel with reasonable price, and also the flight ticket.

After reading the reviews and price comparison, I booked thru Agoda.com and decided to stay at Summer View Hotel.
I think for booking hotel, Agoda is one of the best among others in term of price!, this is based on my experience booked hotel for domestic and abroad destinations.

For the flight I have also recommendation, which you can get best offer from Tiket.com, so far when I booked the flight tix, it offers the best price for both domestic and abroad.
I choose for DPS-Singapore with SQ, I got good offer at around IDR 2.2 mio/pax and Spore - DPS with Batik Air at IDR 1.5 mio/pax
Time flies and close to the D day, my flight was on Jan 23, 2024, me and Ulfa arrived at Singapore around 4PM, and we decided to go around Changi Airport; visit the Jewel at Terminal 1, what an experience!

This place is cool, green vibes, like having clean oxygen around! 😀 love it.
There are several photo spots around, most people that arrived at Changi will spend their time to visit Jewel. If you already at T1 to reach this area you can follow the direction and there is kind of "bridge" that you can walk by to reach Jewel.
If you are in T2 or T3, to go to Jewel, you can use the Skytrain (free of charge)
What else? well there are lot of restaurants around and if you have good budget then you can enjoy the food there!
At around 7PM we took grab to go the hotel! as we dont have much energy again to use the MRT with the suitcases we bring along!

Sometime after reach hotel, we go out for buying meal, and I booked the right hotel, because it close to Seven Eleven and also next to a Korean Store ✌. Me and Ulfa bought ready to eat meal...heat it up at sevel and bring them back to hotel, after finished the meal, we go bed for charging the energy for the D day!

On Jan 24, 2024 we took grab (again) to Kallang Wave Mall which in one area with the National Stadium where the concert will be held, we go around, bought merchandises, taking pictures, and starting queuing for the gate to be opened.
We came too early, and wait too long, this kind of learning lesson, because in Singapore, I can say no need to worry, you will be able smoothly attend the concert as long as the tix is in your hand, yes you can bit early to anticipate traffic, like 1 hour arrival before the main concert, you still have time tho. At Kallang Wave Mall, we also experience lunch at The Soup Spoon, and took cheap offer, with SGD 9.9/pax you will get a big plate of warrior salad bowl with jasmine ice tea included.
This is resto is recommended! one of best salad bowl that I ever tasted, it just sooo good!

The waiting is over! and eventough it was heavy rain, it didnt stop the coldplayers to enter the gate for the Coldplay's performance. At 8.30PM the show is begin and I cannot describe my feeling at that time, tears, blessed, happy, still cannot believe I can attend the concert, all those feelings mixed at once.

Almost all of my fave songs were presented; A Sky Full of Stars, Viva la Vida, Something Like This, My Universe, Fix You....I think I also heard Charlie Brown? whatever, I too enjoying the concert and not really remember all the songs tho.
Chris was performed well, eventho I mostly of time seeing him thru the big screen, its totally OK, this moment will never be forgotten in my life. A blessed that even until the time I write this post, I still feel that Allah is sooo kind to me. He allows this moment crossing in my life, exactly like I want, smoothen all the process from the tix war, renewing my passport process, booking the hotel and flight, the whole trip in Singapore, everything!
Friends or whoever happen drop by and read this post, wish and believe in Allah (God), He might postpone your wish to happen, because he knows the best time for you, and He will guide and be with you along the way, this is my spiritual experience, even though I was sometime neglecting Him, He still gave me endless blessings!

-Believe in Him, He will never fail you, it just about timing-



Self Reminder: The Born Day

Today is my born day, I think I never post on my born day, but this year I want to write few words. Since I was young, in my family, not rea...