Man and Being Mature

I think one of what most women want from men is called mature. Stated
in the dictionary that mature: implies gaining wisdom, experience, or
sophistication as well as adulthood.
However, I think as woman process herself to be mature, man also go
thru hard time for being mature, because it is like a 'duty' for them
for being like that.
Why I stated like 'duty' ? It is because when a man get marry then he
will be the head of his family, and he should be mature and good
enough to be a husband and father in the same time
While for woman, correct me if I am wrong, sometimes men like spoiled
women..
There is always understanding when a woman could not walk too far or
easy to feel tired when doing something hard, but for a man...not
that easy right? even when we saw a 'weak' man then we said " oh man"
come on man".....
What I am trying to say here, a man also need understanding when he
needs time to grow up or being mature.
When he cries, it does not mean that he is weak. When he can not walk
far, it is because he feels tire and need time to take a breath. When
he can not answer your call, perhaps he needs to lay down a while
before he is ready to listen to your problem that you want to share
with him....ouch so many?
Yes many understanding that he demand from women or other people coz
we expected as much as that I stated above isn't?
Life is beautiful and I still learn and process my self for being
mature everyday....

*Inspired by a Journey of a Friend when He should Learn to Hang On in
The Middle of Nowhere*